Thursday, February 22, 2007
Wednesday, February 21, 2007
utterly bored?
Here is an instance of what i do and get all my smile back when i get utterly bored! In fact, after this, i laugh, i roll and can't help sharing as here at this BLOG! :-) Got the vibes already, eh?
OK. FOLLOW ME!
RIGHT NOW , i can read these oddly ODD NEWS over there! :)
1) A routine appendix operation in Belgrade went badly wrong when two surgeons started fighting and stormed from the operating theater to settle their dispute outside.
Poor patient! :) I guess nobody comes to those surgeons again.
2) Fed up with spending too many weekends going to weddings, an Argentine couple took out a paid announcement on the social pages of a major newspaper expressing their desire for some social neglect : PLEASE DONT INVITE US TO YOUR WEDDING!
I, foresee, an unsocial networking website soon! :_) for socially neglected ones, or those who want to be socially neglected! Guess what: They wouldn't add as friends! They register and voila they are the members! PERIOD! LOL ! :)
3) A Malaysian state plans to recruit "spies" from the public to snoop on unmarried lovers and report them to Islamic religious authorities, a newspaper said Tuesday.
Oh my, Oh my! I am twice happy! I am a married lover :P , and I am not into ISLAMIC affinity! :)
4) A top South Korean bank is sending a group of its single female employees on a blind date trip to North Korea, hoping that romance will make them happy at the office, an official said Tuesday.
DAMN! I should have been a North Korean HULK :P :)
5) Perhaps his $24 billion electric bill will teach Richard Redden not to leave the heat running. Thanks to a printing error, Redden and more than 1,300 Weatherford utility customers this week received billion-dollar electric bills marked as late notices.
What a day he might be having! :) Hey WIFEY! LOOK. I got a billion-dollar bill on electricity! I guess the minute later he's stabbed from the back! and there stands his lovey dovey wifey! :)
I guess and i am sure there are endless ODD NEWS out there! And remember!
DONT EVER BE BORED! :)
Good Luck People!
OK. FOLLOW ME!
- Go to http://www.yahoo.com
- There is this "In the News" Tab, and below there you can see the link "MORE NEWS" [ HINT: You can directly click http://news.yahoo.com , if you are struggling to find the tiny font! :)
- OH WHAT THE HELL. IS ELF MAKING A FOOL OUTTA ME? nah , nah , how dare ELF! :P
- There is something called the "ODD NEWS". SPOT THAT and have your time!
RIGHT NOW , i can read these oddly ODD NEWS over there! :)
1) A routine appendix operation in Belgrade went badly wrong when two surgeons started fighting and stormed from the operating theater to settle their dispute outside.
Poor patient! :) I guess nobody comes to those surgeons again.
2) Fed up with spending too many weekends going to weddings, an Argentine couple took out a paid announcement on the social pages of a major newspaper expressing their desire for some social neglect : PLEASE DONT INVITE US TO YOUR WEDDING!
I, foresee, an unsocial networking website soon! :_) for socially neglected ones, or those who want to be socially neglected! Guess what: They wouldn't add as friends! They register and voila they are the members! PERIOD! LOL ! :)
3) A Malaysian state plans to recruit "spies" from the public to snoop on unmarried lovers and report them to Islamic religious authorities, a newspaper said Tuesday.
Oh my, Oh my! I am twice happy! I am a married lover :P , and I am not into ISLAMIC affinity! :)
4) A top South Korean bank is sending a group of its single female employees on a blind date trip to North Korea, hoping that romance will make them happy at the office, an official said Tuesday.
DAMN! I should have been a North Korean HULK :P :)
5) Perhaps his $24 billion electric bill will teach Richard Redden not to leave the heat running. Thanks to a printing error, Redden and more than 1,300 Weatherford utility customers this week received billion-dollar electric bills marked as late notices.
What a day he might be having! :) Hey WIFEY! LOOK. I got a billion-dollar bill on electricity! I guess the minute later he's stabbed from the back! and there stands his lovey dovey wifey! :)
I guess and i am sure there are endless ODD NEWS out there! And remember!
DONT EVER BE BORED! :)
Good Luck People!
Thursday, February 15, 2007
Universe of Discourse!
Amazing , aint it ?
The way you analyze something written, spoken or a gesture: lets say! Can you go beyond the author? What do *DISCOURSE ANALYSTS* do, and what are they paid for? Do they necessarily get it all?
Well, thats an appealing topic for sure! I am NO analyst, but a mere admirer. I am an admirer of words, syntaxes, semantics, languages, grammars.. COME ON , we have aplenty of them. They make genres of discourse. They make it HEAP! Thats the best part why i CRAVE for literature! Me writing this, You reading this: and YOU thinking, what i was thinking while i wrote this! *MATCHES* [ please smile, i just tickled your brain ].
REF: Wikipedia
What is the thin line between how people analyze what you are saying, and what EXACTLY you mean to say? Even sometimes later, you might also believe you meant what people analyzed! Funny? Yes, it is! Mythical? Yes, it is! Awesome! Its only Words! Pragmatics! Freakin' Awesome: i would say! :)
REF: Wikipedia
Topics of interest to discourse analysts include:
* The various levels or dimensions of discourse, such as sounds (intonation, etc.), gestures, syntax, the lexicon, style, rhetoric, meanings, speech acts, moves, strategies, turns and other aspects of interaction
* Genres of discourse (various types of discourse in politics, the media, education, science, business, etc.)
* The relations between discourse and the emergence of sentence syntax
* The relations between text (discourse) and context
* The relations between discourse and power
* The relations between discourse and interaction
* The relations between discourse and cognition and memory
The way you analyze something written, spoken or a gesture: lets say! Can you go beyond the author? What do *DISCOURSE ANALYSTS* do, and what are they paid for? Do they necessarily get it all?
Well, thats an appealing topic for sure! I am NO analyst, but a mere admirer. I am an admirer of words, syntaxes, semantics, languages, grammars.. COME ON , we have aplenty of them. They make genres of discourse. They make it HEAP! Thats the best part why i CRAVE for literature! Me writing this, You reading this: and YOU thinking, what i was thinking while i wrote this! *MATCHES* [ please smile, i just tickled your brain ].
REF: Wikipedia
The term "universe of discourse" generally refers to the entire set of terms used in a specific discourse, i.e. the family of linguistic or semantic terms that are specific to any one area of interest. In model-theoretical semantics, the term "universe of discourse" refers to the set of entities that a model is based on.
What is the thin line between how people analyze what you are saying, and what EXACTLY you mean to say? Even sometimes later, you might also believe you meant what people analyzed! Funny? Yes, it is! Mythical? Yes, it is! Awesome! Its only Words! Pragmatics! Freakin' Awesome: i would say! :)
REF: Wikipedia
Topics of interest to discourse analysts include:
* The various levels or dimensions of discourse, such as sounds (intonation, etc.), gestures, syntax, the lexicon, style, rhetoric, meanings, speech acts, moves, strategies, turns and other aspects of interaction
* Genres of discourse (various types of discourse in politics, the media, education, science, business, etc.)
* The relations between discourse and the emergence of sentence syntax
* The relations between text (discourse) and context
* The relations between discourse and power
* The relations between discourse and interaction
* The relations between discourse and cognition and memory
Tuesday, February 13, 2007
Happy Valentine!
Yes. This is early! Its still 1 hr 35 minutes to February 14,2007. BUT, why am i early? Just to let the DAY know that i am in LOVE ever. I dont have to wait for this particular day to express my LOVE. NO NO, this is NOT an insult to the day either! Go , enjoy the day if you have waited so long for the expression of LOVE, for the expression of admiration that you have had ever on THIS DAY!
I have loved my BLOG , my rants/ramblings whatever you may say , since the day i started IMAGINING. The day i imagined a girlfriend - and it was all a mystery! Schoolmates called i was writing about a girl i die for! I was writing about a charismatic beauty [unseen, untouched, unexplored] : yet the name : LILY. For those who know what i am talking about, i can express how my passion for LOVE was since then. And you'd find it amazing that perhaps since i was so deliberately in LOVE with that unseen charm : i never had a relationship that really worked! :) In fact, that should be my fidelity towards HER. I can ONLY love and die for a single CHARM in my entire life. She is yet to be explored, remember!
Valentine's Day - the day when people are on RED. When people celebrate with their loved and dear ones. Let me celebrate it with my BLOG. I always wrote about HER, wrote my MIND, never knowing who she is/was. I dont care even i really need to see HER or meet HER , but I cant stop loving HER. :) I LOVE HER. Fragrant! Liliac! Mystery! my thought-image!
Hey. Listen! I have re-decorated my BLOG for you! LOL . The other fact is that, i have been busy studying for my assessment tomorrow. and this is not an excuse for blogging early ;) . You are always with me, and no doubt, tomorrow is no miss!
By the way, let me express my VALENTINE WISHES to everyone who reads me here! There is never a single time to let someone know how much you love or have loved her/him. But, some surprises can be overwhelming, of course! May it be V'Day or your loved ones B'Day! or why not make a new DAY special! mark it "YOUR DAY"!!! Recur it many a times in a year, lets say weekly , monthly, according to your convenience. Its all about expression and bringing an smile to YOURSELF, to your LOVED ONE!
I Love You! Thanks for being myself! LOL !!!
I have loved my BLOG , my rants/ramblings whatever you may say , since the day i started IMAGINING. The day i imagined a girlfriend - and it was all a mystery! Schoolmates called i was writing about a girl i die for! I was writing about a charismatic beauty [unseen, untouched, unexplored] : yet the name : LILY. For those who know what i am talking about, i can express how my passion for LOVE was since then. And you'd find it amazing that perhaps since i was so deliberately in LOVE with that unseen charm : i never had a relationship that really worked! :) In fact, that should be my fidelity towards HER. I can ONLY love and die for a single CHARM in my entire life. She is yet to be explored, remember!
Valentine's Day - the day when people are on RED. When people celebrate with their loved and dear ones. Let me celebrate it with my BLOG. I always wrote about HER, wrote my MIND, never knowing who she is/was. I dont care even i really need to see HER or meet HER , but I cant stop loving HER. :) I LOVE HER. Fragrant! Liliac! Mystery! my thought-image!
Hey. Listen! I have re-decorated my BLOG for you! LOL . The other fact is that, i have been busy studying for my assessment tomorrow. and this is not an excuse for blogging early ;) . You are always with me, and no doubt, tomorrow is no miss!
By the way, let me express my VALENTINE WISHES to everyone who reads me here! There is never a single time to let someone know how much you love or have loved her/him. But, some surprises can be overwhelming, of course! May it be V'Day or your loved ones B'Day! or why not make a new DAY special! mark it "YOUR DAY"!!! Recur it many a times in a year, lets say weekly , monthly, according to your convenience. Its all about expression and bringing an smile to YOURSELF, to your LOVED ONE!
I Love You! Thanks for being myself! LOL !!!
Monday, February 12, 2007
Valentine's Day Massacre!
You would go: what on earth does that "TITLE" means?
This world is surely an AMUSING place to live in. aint it ? Dont believe me ? Look at what SHE has to say!
Check this out!
WHAT ON EARTH :)
This world is surely an AMUSING place to live in. aint it ? Dont believe me ? Look at what SHE has to say!
Check this out!
WHAT ON EARTH :)
Sunday, February 11, 2007
Period!
Do you know how much it hurts when the person whom you love the most just goes out of your life? YES, i know!
BUT, It hurts even more when the person whom you love the most stays with you and you think you aren't going any further. WHY? Is it the thoughts ? Is it circumstances, or is it your share? YOUR reward for being so close - to be "detached". Your reward for loving so dear - to eventually "forget"/"forgive"/"whatever". Some actions are the aftermath of emotions! an emotional event, that triggers all these and where we go : LIVE OUR LIFE ON OUR OWN! Still, you feel you're doing it right ! WHY ? Just Because, you've been doing the same before the day "the other person" came into your life! WHY DO U ACCEPT IT LIKE THAT? Because, i want it like that!
LOVE , RELATIONSHIPS : why does it matter anyway , unless you find a common point. Why do I think a relationship can never end? I know it cant since the person whom you shared / have shared almost the innermost core of your heart and innermost "cyclone" of your brain understands you the most! and no one else can! SO, WHY ARE YOU PUTTING THIS RELATIONSHIP TO AN END ? I know that its an act of cowardice to stay in an act of delusion than to accept the fate. The fate which isnot going to change anyways! The fate that makes believe Life is just a fuckin' whore! You dont get what you want: and you want what you dont get!
Unbelievable, yet true!
Erratic, yet the journey!
An opinionated myself : coming into such act! I know, like NEVER BEFORE! I can kill myself than killing myself everyday. Lets say some (fractions) of the moon- which i don't quite remember now!
This post is nothing more than a confession of an eccentric mind!
Regardless of what i write, i am least bothered about what the world thinks. For you know me and i know you have got the better picture of my mind right now! You have a great life ahead!
I, hereby, declare a PERIOD to my INSANITY!
BUT, It hurts even more when the person whom you love the most stays with you and you think you aren't going any further. WHY? Is it the thoughts ? Is it circumstances, or is it your share? YOUR reward for being so close - to be "detached". Your reward for loving so dear - to eventually "forget"/"forgive"/"whatever". Some actions are the aftermath of emotions! an emotional event, that triggers all these and where we go : LIVE OUR LIFE ON OUR OWN! Still, you feel you're doing it right ! WHY ? Just Because, you've been doing the same before the day "the other person" came into your life! WHY DO U ACCEPT IT LIKE THAT? Because, i want it like that!
LOVE , RELATIONSHIPS : why does it matter anyway , unless you find a common point. Why do I think a relationship can never end? I know it cant since the person whom you shared / have shared almost the innermost core of your heart and innermost "cyclone" of your brain understands you the most! and no one else can! SO, WHY ARE YOU PUTTING THIS RELATIONSHIP TO AN END ? I know that its an act of cowardice to stay in an act of delusion than to accept the fate. The fate which isnot going to change anyways! The fate that makes believe Life is just a fuckin' whore! You dont get what you want: and you want what you dont get!
Unbelievable, yet true!
Erratic, yet the journey!
An opinionated myself : coming into such act! I know, like NEVER BEFORE! I can kill myself than killing myself everyday. Lets say some (fractions) of the moon- which i don't quite remember now!
This post is nothing more than a confession of an eccentric mind!
Regardless of what i write, i am least bothered about what the world thinks. For you know me and i know you have got the better picture of my mind right now! You have a great life ahead!
I, hereby, declare a PERIOD to my INSANITY!
Saturday, February 10, 2007
There was a time!
There was a time,
when I was ME.
You were I
and they were US
Now is the time,
I am I
Me is Me
they are them!!!
and excuse me, who are you?
*** Sighs! Absolutely, makes no sense to me! :) And many a times, being comfortably NUMB and SENSELESS gives you pleasure! YES , they do! :_)
when I was ME.
You were I
and they were US
Now is the time,
I am I
Me is Me
they are them!!!
and excuse me, who are you?
*** Sighs! Absolutely, makes no sense to me! :) And many a times, being comfortably NUMB and SENSELESS gives you pleasure! YES , they do! :_)
Delusions!
Flashback:
http://elftrauma.blogspot.com/2006/04/i-m-not-pessimist.html
So much of delusions!
delusions of competence!
delusions of trust!
delusions of emotions!
delusions of love!
when you only know , you are but a mere delusion!
OKAY . This blog is something about, how you imagine things to be ,and how different they are in *reality? Oh yes! Very Very different. Come on. Move on, it simply wasnt a match! Memories haunt still , you move along! isnt it so cruel ? NO , never .
If you are under the *delusion of act: just think, how you are not true to yourself! Oh yes, SELF.
This blog might seem a little personal to my friends :! Well , but the thing i would like to convey is : Dont ever believe anyone more than yourself! Dont ever give in everything for anyone! The day, you give in : you are no more yourself! [ in context to deception ]
I realise i am ever in LOVE. I realise that is not LOVE. I realise good is yet to come. I realise i am not GOOD. i realise life is freakin' dreadnought. I realise i am "self" no more!
OKAY whatever rants i come up with, what does it matter to you anyways? :)
I am mine!
PS: Literature doesnt necessarily portray your state of mind, but i fear it does sometimes !!!
Background: Any state transitions to the other state. There is a BEGIN , there is an END. There is the IDLE state, There is the WAIT state. Events trigger from one state to the other.
http://elftrauma.blogspot.com/2006/04/i-m-not-pessimist.html
So much of delusions!
delusions of competence!
delusions of trust!
delusions of emotions!
delusions of love!
when you only know , you are but a mere delusion!
OKAY . This blog is something about, how you imagine things to be ,and how different they are in *reality? Oh yes! Very Very different. Come on. Move on, it simply wasnt a match! Memories haunt still , you move along! isnt it so cruel ? NO , never .
If you are under the *delusion of act: just think, how you are not true to yourself! Oh yes, SELF.
This blog might seem a little personal to my friends :! Well , but the thing i would like to convey is : Dont ever believe anyone more than yourself! Dont ever give in everything for anyone! The day, you give in : you are no more yourself! [ in context to deception ]
I realise i am ever in LOVE. I realise that is not LOVE. I realise good is yet to come. I realise i am not GOOD. i realise life is freakin' dreadnought. I realise i am "self" no more!
OKAY whatever rants i come up with, what does it matter to you anyways? :)
I am mine!
PS: Literature doesnt necessarily portray your state of mind, but i fear it does sometimes !!!
Background: Any state transitions to the other state. There is a BEGIN , there is an END. There is the IDLE state, There is the WAIT state. Events trigger from one state to the other.
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I would define detachment as:
Ability to allow people, places, or things the freedom to be themselves.
Holding back from the need to rescue, save, or fix another person from being sick, dysfunctional, or irrational.
Giving another person "the space'' to be him or herself.
Disengaging from an over-enmeshed or dependent relationship with people.
Willingness to accept that you cannot change or control a person, place, or thing.
Developing and maintaining of a safe, emotional distance from someone whom you have previously given a lot of power to affect your emotional outlook on life.
Establishing of emotional boundaries between you and those people you have become overly enmeshed or dependent with in order that all of you might be able to develop your own sense of autonomy and independence.
Process by which you are free to feel your own feelings when you see another person falter and fail and not be led by guilt to feel responsible for their failure or faltering.
Ability to maintain an emotional bond of love, concern, and caring without the negative results of rescuing, enabling, fixing, or controlling.
Placing of all things in life into a healthy, rational perspective and recognizing that there is a need to back away from the uncontrollable and unchangeable realities of life.
Ability to exercise emotional self-protection and prevention so as not to experience greater emotional devastation from having hung on beyond a reasonable and rational point.
Ability to let people you love and care for accept personal responsibility for their own actions and to practice tough love and not give in when they come to you to bail them out when their actions lead to failure or trouble for them.
Ability to allow people to be who they "really are'' rather than who you "want them to be.''
Ability to avoid being hurt, abused, taken advantage of by people who in the past have been overly dependent or enmeshed with you.