Body Language!

Some few weeks back, i met this new friend . She is an aged ( we call it "budi" ) who talks almost anything to me. In fact , she must have got that security talking to me, and i have learnt a lot from her. The major reason that her being a member of the opposite sex. Now , whats that anything ? no wonders , its about politics ( national, international, university politics too :) ) , its about people (races, culture , religion) , its about being a human ( accepting sexual differences , morales , values ) and what not!

She's got stories to share always . Once there was a resignation from the Chancellor of our university. I didnt understand the campus politics and the media reports on all these , and she was the one who enlightened me about the fact. And the thing was about misusing the power one is authorized , misusing the money and all those . Since then, believe it or not, i have begun to understand some of my university politics . i repeat , some .

She's an impressive personality. One of our talks i remember was about a professor who mistreated a young girl at her class. The girl was a graduate student but around my age .. and this lady must be of the age of the professor. The incident was something like : that girl spilled some drinks in the classroom floor, at which she suddenly went outside, grabbed a mop and started cleaning the floor. To the astonishment , the professor was rude on her and shouted " You should start a career on that ". The girl couldnt revolt , as of her maturity, as of her age .. and she ran away from the class. This lady was simply silent then .. but was not happy with the drama going on. Later , she was with me talking about the situation, and she questioned , if it would be wise to complain against the professor. Well , i am young too ;) .. but still , i agreed that she should talk to the lady who was embarrassed by the professor and talk to the professor directly about the behavior.

Some days later, she came to me ...and said that she actually went to the professor and explained why the thing he did on that class was wrong! To her dismay, the professor didnt quite respond to it . She couldnt simply stay there for long, so , she left. She even told the professors immediate supervisor , and found indifference there too. I was happy that at least , she let the professor know of the misbehavior. " That was an achievement " - i told her . of course , that was! I dont have that guts to talk for anyone if its not concerned to me anyways. I respect that lady's decision on that . No wonder , she is a personality to have some quality time with.

And , you might be wondering by now , what the title of this blog is ? This is one of the terms , that we recently discussed. She told me " you've got plenty admirers " .. And , she showed me girls who were passing ahead. She imitated how each girl wanted to catch my attention , or , how each girl wanted my attention on her. She categorised them and we had fun sampling every girls that pass by into one of these categories. ;) .. Lol , sometimes she even hid.. so that she could analyse things even better. LOL . i was laughing all the time. BODY LANGUAGE is what she was looking at , and she boasted " who knows better than me ". THESE GIRLS , GIRLS , GIRLS !!!

Indeed , TRUE. Your body doesn't know how to lie. Body Language is the " the nonverbal communication " . You might be scared to know that , people would judge your characteristics by your body language. That could give impressions to people you meet , that could prove a disaster too . Like , those girls .. one of the categories we were talking about was " look at that girl , she doesnt have a boyfriend and wants to grab your attention. She's simply so fat. " .. The other was " She thinks she looks beautiful with that hairdo , and she thinks every guy is just ready for a chase " .. lol .. It might sound a bit nosy that we were trying to judge a book by its cover , but who cares !!! at the end of the day , we were just having some fun . We admitted that later. :)